Do you recall this old camp song?
I have decided to follow Jesus, I have decided to follow Jesus. I have decided to follow Jesus, no turning back, no turning back. Though none go with me, still I will follow, though none go with me, still I will follow… No turning back, no turning back. The world behind me, the cross before me…no turning back, no turning back.
I can make a list of those who have helped me follow Jesus—can you? This is discipleship.
John MacArthur says, “Discipleship is more than just being a learner, it’s being an intimate follower, having an intimate relationship, following to the point where you would go as far as death out of love.” God’s love for us starts a chain reaction. He loves us, then we love Him, and then we love others. I John 4:19-21 says, “We love because He first loved us. If anyone says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar, for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.”
“Being a disciple of Jesus means orienting our lives towards others, just as Jesus did. It means laboring for the sake of others…It requires an investor’s mentality, knowing that the return is eternal…God’s Word is the seed that ultimately bears fruit, even if we don’t see it in the short term.” (Mark Dever)
In other words, we labor, we sow, we rest, God grows!
Discipling is initiating a relationship in which you teach, correct, model and love. And of course, it takes great humility. According to Philippians 2, it’s having the same mind, the same love, and using diverse gifts for the glory of God, not out of rivalry or competition, but counting others as more significant than self!
As women, we shrink back from initiating relationships with other women for fear that we will somehow be found out that we are imperfect and that our flaws will be discovered and put on display. However … “That is our confidence: not that we have the perfect home and well-behaved children, but that in the muck and mire, God’s spirit is at work. Even in our weakness, God uses our words to warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, comfort the weak, and show patience to everyone, all for His great glory.” (Erin Wheeler)
We get so mixed up by believing our own glory is at stake when in fact, we exist for making His name great through our relationships!
Through our discipleship, we want people to grow in the knowledge of God in Christ, and faith comes from hearing the Word of Christ. Mark Dever explains, “they cannot obey what they haven’t been taught.” And you cannot impart what you do not possess.
Don’t think discipleship happens without sacrifice. Just look at the disciples when Jesus called them to follow Him! They immediately left their nets and family behind and followed in obedience! Discipleship requires the sacrifice of time. It requires hearing and studying the Word of God. It requires lifting your eyes to the Wonderful Counselor in prayer. It requires love.
“Our purpose for pursuing Titus 2 character, relationships, and ministry is not merely to be better wives, moms, and ministry leaders, to have a better reputation, or to be able to sleep better at night. Our ultimate purpose is to make much of God. We do that as we experience, enjoy, and reflect the loveliness of Christ, making Him known to a world that is starved for true beauty.” (Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth, Adorned,)
Are you walking hand in hand with others in your church community? Can you say, “Follow me as I follow Christ?”
“Show me your redeemed life and I might be inclined to believe in your Redeemer.” (19th century German philosopher, Heinrich Heine)